So, today is my birthday…I am now officially 35! I remember when I was little, always a birthday party. Sometimes they were shared with my Dad, Papaw and brother since our birthdays are all just within a few weeks of each other, but ALWAYS a party. Always a cake, always presents, always candles, always wrapping paper and ribbons and always surrounded by all that loved me. My grandparents, parents, brother and sometimes friends…we all got together and had a party!
Life has changed….I’m now married and have a son, I live away from my parents, my brother lives in another state, my Mamaw Irene is with Jesus and my Mamaw Betty now has dementia, my Papaw is grumpy and suffers from a bit of dementia too, and I have In-laws that think Rob could’ve made a much better choice. Life has definitely changed! My birthday isn’t really a big deal anymore…to anyone but me. Don’t get me wrong I’m not forgotten on my birthday. My husband and son took me out to dinner last Saturday for my birthday and they gave me a BEAUTIFUL necklace, but today when I woke up….my birthDAY…the house was quiet. Lil man and my beloved were sleeping (Rob is currently working nights). I noticed a card from Rob laying on the arm of the couch, I read it and the words were beautiful, but the house was quiet. My parents called to wish me a Happy Birthday and so did my brother and nephew, but the house was quiet. No birthday cards came in the mail because of one reason or another they didn’t arrive today, but the house was quiet.
If you know me, you know that my birthday isn’t just January 24th but it lasts the whole month of January…or at least that’s how it used to be. There is never too much celebration in my world….oh, how life has changed.
So, today as I realize that I am another year older, my family and most of my friends live far away, some of my family are gone and some are gone but still here…I will be grateful for all those wonderful memories that I had as a child, for family and friends, and for a Mom that always wanted my birthday to be special. I have such fond memories of growing up and for that I am blessed. I won’t be sad, I’ll be glad for all the life I had and I will continue to make special the birthdays of those I love…because you can never have too much celebration!
Robs Farm Girl

















